Enough of the Negativity

One fateful morning I logged into facebook and as I was scrolling through my news feed and one particular status caught my eye and I quote ” Why wont anyone like my status ? Nobody wants to even chat with me …. is it because I am not handsome ?” Now here is what I deduced from what I read, that the person who wrong this is not just a bitter person but very  bitter about something or somethings that have recurred so many times in his life that he has lost all sense of positivity . He cant even look himself in the mirror and say to himself that he is Good enough …. this young man in question is not alone in this Boat of negativity …. there are people out there who are even worse , people who hold themselves in low esteem … they see nothing good happening to them because they have people telling them that nothing good will come out of them and they believe it . Whatever happened to Being careful when choosing words or perhaps these people themselves Were treated the same way and thats the only way they know how ! They know not of another way …. even if they knew why would they want to take another path when Negativity, low self esteem and zero confidence has been imprinted on them by others and its a trade mark on them that, doing the right thing  just  seems soo wrong . So just like animals being led to the abattoir they queue up blindly … falling into this pit where self acceptance looks like a dream out of reach , they condemn themselves soo hard that it hurts …. they begin to hate . They lose all sense of reasoning … they ask questions that nobody seems to have an answer to . Now my question is ….. what will you say to such a person ? Will you help build his or herself confidence or you will just walk on because you feel it is none of your business !

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